Many letters to the editor appear oblivious to the fact that gay couples with children are part of our community. I am a lesbian, and my partner and I are expecting a baby any day. Research shows gay couples do a great job of parenting, but I don’t need research to tell me that I’m a good parent. My 7-year-old tells me this in so many of the beautiful ways that children express love and appreciation for their family. I am blessed.